Hello, everyone,
I just want to start by expressing my gratitude for all the prayers, thoughts, visits, texts, gifts, meals, emails, calls and kind words I have received in my recuperation. I have felt very humbled by the volume of care and the interest people have taken in my surgery/recovery. If what I have received personally, is indicative of Catalyst Church’s level of Pastoral care and thoughtfulness; WOW our congregation is truly blessed.
It is three weeks today since the surgery and overall, I am doing very well particularly with the mechanics of the new hip. Mentally I have struggled (this is where you laugh and say what’s new) with getting my brain clear, having clarity in my thinking and recall and being free of fogginess. My mind has not enjoyed the anaesthetic, nor the side effects of pain killers or the trauma of major surgery.
One of the thoughts that can circulate in your thinking when you are incapacitated and heavily reliant on others (like I have been) is what if I was like this permanently. What if I could never work again, what if my body severely restricted what I could physically accomplish in life. Not be able to drive, travel etc. How would I respond in my faith? Would I become angry at the Lord, melancholic and bitter? Or would I find a strength and courage I never knew? How would I respond and how would it change me? I guess we can never truly answer that hypothetical scenario until we face that situation in reality. But I got a glimmer of it these past weeks and it made me appreciate those who are in a constant fight for better health and maintaining their independence and quality of life. It can be lonely and draining.
Many of our Church family are facing extended battles with ill health, coping with severe pain, grief, restricted mobility, isolation and it does play heavily on your psyche, attitude, sense of self-worth and belonging. Can I encourage everyone to take the time out this week to reach out to someone you know who is doing it tough. That phone call, text or visit will be priceless in standing with our brothers and sisters and encouraging them in their struggles. None of us want to face those seasons alone, let us continue to be a radical loving community that doesn’t let anyone slip through the net and is always mindful of those who might need our encouragement and good cheer to lift their spirits.
Beyond what we can offer in support of others, I know the Lord never leaves or forsakes us. He is the ultimate comforter. So many times, over the past few weeks, especially post op, the Lord has drawn near to me in ways that blow my mind. Reminding me of His enduring protection and healing. My prayer today is that the “God of all comfort” that Paul describes in 2 Corinthians 1:3 will shower you in His mercy and Grace!
I look forward to seeing you all on Sunday. I have enlisted the aid of Cheryl to help me share this week’s message, as we explore what it means to “THRIVE” in being a member of the local Church body, marriage and ministry. We will co-share some of the struggles, wins and invaluable lessons we have learnt on our journey and hope it encourages you.
Blessings Mark